Anorexia recovery help?

Recovery Nurses want me at 110, But weight has been at a stable 96-97 lbs past few weeks, and I'm eating the required amount, at the hospital and at home, But I loose if I go above that, I loose and go bakc, and I get punnished/quesioned on it, What should I do, Does that mean my weight is stabilizing? I've also got my periods already, n which when I started recovery, I had'nt had gotten them? I need help or sudgestions from experience?